Did you know that the average human being has up to approximately 60,000 negative thoughts per day? According to Psychology Today, 70% of our thoughts are negative. That’s a lot, right. I mean, out of all of the things that we think about, 70% are negative? It makes me sad to know that I have spent so much of my energy on negative thinking, but it also makes me feel better to know that I am not alone when it comes to having negative thoughts.
So, what next? How do we not have so many negative thoughts, when obviously, it’s a flaw that most people struggle with.
In my attempt to grow closer to Christ, I have joined a handful of support and community groups at my church. I so badly want to drown out the negative thoughts that plague my mind. Do any of these sound familiar?
- I’m not worthy
- I’m ugly
- I’m fat/skinny
- No one loves me
- My life is meaningless
- God doesn’t love me
- No one understands me or my condition
Pity party, right? Well, no more! One of the classes that I joined is based on the Christian bible study called Crash the Chatterbox by Steven Furtick. This study focuses on how to replace your own negative thoughts (the chatterbox) with the word of God. It also focuses on building a closer relationship with Jesus so you can learn how to seek him in peace and turmoil.
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When I first learned about this study, I was super excited. I am so tired of hearing my own thoughts, getting caught up in my own mind. Now, I am learning to turn off the chatterbox and directing my focus completely on Jesus.
This weeks lesson we learned that:
- The chatterbox will always try to convince you that God doesn’t love you
- We have to turn on focus on Jesus. When we focus less on ourselves and more on Jesus, we are able to hear him clearly and feel his unconditional love.
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- Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take. -Proverbs 3:5-6
- Gods says I amOverpowering who I say I am
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- When Moses said to God, “If I come to the people of Israel and say to them, ‘The God of your fathers has sent me to you,’ and they ask me, ‘What is his name?’ what shall I say to them?” God said to Moses, “I AM WHO I AM.” And he said, “Say this to the people of Israel, ‘I AM has sent me to you.’” God also said to Moses, “Say this to the people of Israel, ‘The Lord, the God of your fathers, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob, has sent me to you.’ This is my name forever, and thus I am to be remembered throughout all generations.” (Exodus 3:13–15)
- Gods says He willOverpowering my fear
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- So we can say with confidence, “The Lord is my helper, so I will have no fear. What can mere people do to me?” -Hebrews 13: 6
- God says He hasOverpowering condemnation
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- In his kindness God called you to share in his eternal glory by means of Christ Jesus. So after you have suffered a little while, he will restore, support, and strengthen you, and he will place you on a firm foundation. -1 Peter 5:10
- Gods says I canOverpowering the lies of discouragement
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- Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous-how well I know it. You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb. -Psalm 139: 14-15
- The Chatterbox will always try to make you misunderstand the nature of who you are in relation to who God is.
- God wants us to have confidence in his everlasting love and notin our circumstances
There is so much more in this study that I am unable to go over without turning this post into a book. If you are interested in learning how to turn off the chatterbox on your mind and focus on what God has planned for you, please click here for the complete set; study guide, book, and DVD.
Click this link to view Steven Furtick teaching one of his lessons. He’s really inspiring and you’re always left feeling inspired as well.
I’ve been doing this study for two weeks and I can already see a difference in my thought process. Please read Changing your Mindset; Becoming More Mindful for more ways you can transform your mind to become more positive.
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Please remember friends, allow God to transform your thoughts into his word. Allow Him to transform your heart and your mind to be more like him. So you can have peace knowing that Jesus is always with you. Pray so he can hear you. Read His word to hear him. Stay blessed, family. I love you all and I pray that you are having a beautiful Sunday.
“Don’t love money; be satisfied with what you have. For God said this, ‘I will never fail you. I will never abandon you.” -Hebrews 13:5
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So beautiful so inspirational
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Thank you so much for your kind words. ❤️❤️
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Thank you for sharing 😁😁😁
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To God be the glory! I’m glad you enjoyed reading it! God bless you
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I loved the way you introduced this subject… Thanks a million, it was really inspirational. ^^
I think that, despite our religious differences, we all seek to do this. Throughout the difficulties and hardship we undergo in our lives, negative thinking is but inevitable. And the best way to overcome it is to beseech refuge in the Word of God, for it is the ultimate guide.. the ultimate salvation. May He enlighten our paths and our hearts and minds from all ills. Amen. 💕
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Amen!! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Our God is an awesome God. He provided books, people, and other resources to make sure we live our best lives though him and promise of salvation. Thank God for you! ❤️❤️🤗🤗
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Indeed 💕
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God don’t make no junk 😁
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No he does not! And if we have junk, then we need to throw it away and replace with Gods love. Thanks for reading and commenting. ❤️❤️🤗🤗
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self-esteem plays a big part in negative thoughts , society, t.v, magazines and our mind plays tricks on us about what is accepted or glorified. In reality though we have to be stronger than that. And I feel you have great points on how to start to fix the negative thoughts. Very real and encouraging post 😀
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I totally agree! Last month I completed a 30 day social media fast. It was so refreshing to abstain from social media. The Lord really revealed himself to me. It was awesome
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Great post! Wow, 70%? And I’m not some minority that has this struggle? That’s encouraging to know! Thanks for sharing! 😊
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God is good! Thank you for reading and commenting. It warms my heart! ❤️❤️🤗🤗
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😊💗
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The only negative thing I have going on in my life is …my job..I hate hate it….I am working on figuring it out…but in the meantime I just keep telling myself I am lucky to have a job and lucky to be be able to afford my condo, pay my utilities etc…so I am blessed….
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It’s always beneficial to remind ourselves of our blessings when we’re going through stuff. I pray you God guides you to make the best decision. God bless you dear. Thank you for reading and commenting.
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Christian, for a while my husband was purposely saying, “I get to go to work now,” instead of “I have to go to work now.”
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That’s awesome
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Very inspiring I needed that. Awesome sis
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Thank you so much. That means a lot. I’m glad you enjoyed it ❤️❤️🤗🤗
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